We live in the world of social media….
It’s a neccessary marketing tool but it’s also a curse.
Let me say..I myself have been GUILTY of the wolf pack bully mentality of social media. I admit I’ve partaken atleast twice. Even if who ever we’re talking about is wrong, has done something we don’t approve of…WE SHOULD NEVER PILE ON LIKE A PACK OF WOLVES. WE SHOULD NEVER OUT SOMEONE, WE SHOULD NEVER DOX ANYONE.
For my part in past instances, I was part of the rumor mill, part of the jokes etc…BUT wrong or right …we were def wrong to harass.
What I’ve learned is the universe handles shit on it’s own.
We dont need to be the Heaux police.
Let people handle their own disagreements…
Let people handle their own disputes over deposits etc…
Let people deal with their own shit and the rest of us need to be handling our own biz and dealing w our own shit.
None of us are perfect. Stop policing each other.
I came into sex work prior to the social media craze and I can tell you WE HANDLED SHIT LIKE WOMEN, WE MADE OUR MONEY AND WE DIDN’T INTERJECT OURSELVES INTO SHIT THAT DIDN’T CONCERN US.
Deposit thief’s? Let them and the client hash it out privately on their own..or let the client handle it however..but we need to keep our nosey asses out of it… Remember if you weren’t there you don’t really know. As they’d tell you in court…ITS HEAR SAY AND NON ADMISSABLE.
Scammer….again ….unless they scammed you..mind your business.
AND IF THEY SCAMMED YOU. IM SURE YOU CAN FIND THEIR EMAIL ADDRESS AND PHONE NUMBER ONLINE..BE A LADY OR WHATEVER GENDER YOU IDENTIFY WITH AND CONTACT THEM PRIVATELY .
Let’s stop attacking each other on TWITTER. It’s to a point where it’s out of control.
And to anyone out there who I ever made feel ganged up on…I apologize. In the future I’ll take my own advice and either mind my business or contact you directly like grown folks should.