I haven’t really addressed the men of Atlanta in a long time. Or men and ladies from anywhere for that matter that doubted me, thought I was somehow a joke or didn’t believe me when I said I had more talents and skills than sex work allowed you to see.
This is mainly to the gentlemen though. Mainly Atlanta gentlemen. Do you remember when I would post ads seeking help, being honest about my life and so many of you assumed I was a liar, a beggar( which wasn’t possible since begging is the expectation of something for nothing) I always gave sessions in exchange for my help received. But the misogyny of some of you and the snootiness of some of the women in the industry who didn’t know me made you all think I was a joke and not business savvy. My approach,my genuine spirit got me back to who I am ,who I was prior to sex work. Meaning I am no longer struggling ( at least not nearly as often) and I am able to live my life w comfort and joy.
Remember when I said how intelligent I was, so many of you laughed. Remember when I mentioned my artistic abilities, so many of you laughed. Remember when I said anything I asked for and gave time in exchange for was truly for my children and so many of you laughed or thought I was lying. HA! I have now had and am having the final laugh.
My children even with struggles here and there ( my adult ones) are thriving. Never been to jail. My oldest daughter just graduated college and I have a second daughter in college. None of my children have drug issues. My oldest is bi -polar but it runs on my mothers side. So you see nothing in my profession or lifestyle caused it. I remember so many of you would say terrible things, send crazy emails , comment online about how my kids must be embarrassed with a sex worker mom. NOPE! They love me very much, as I love them. I was able to take them on vacation last summer and am working hard to do that again this year.
You all made fun, made jokes but until this year when I finally got state funded insurance I provided for 5 kids with NO govt aid. WITH NO AID. So say what you want I was always savvy and always on my shit.
I know the crabs in a barrel mentality of Atlanta and sometimes of this industry made so many of you want to see me fail. I remember the emails telling me to quit. “Your’e too old, You’re too fat” all kinds of negative energy . I always told you all I WILL STOP WHEN I WANT , WHEN I AM READY! No man anywhere is going to force me to stop, force me to stop being me or cause me shame. That is not who I am , it is not who I will ever be!
I am powerful, driven, intelligent and special and always have been and always will be!
I see you all once in a while still talking about me on sites I don’t even frequent or wish to get clientele from. The comments always prove one thing to me .. I am and was unforgettable! Most of you naysayers have never even met me, but you hate me because I will not allow you to shame me, to break me. I will not allow you to take advantage of me ! You are angry and bitter than my life got back to what I told you I was before I moved to Atlanta. You are mad that I no longer need to offer rates that sickened me to offer before. You are mad gents that you can not control me the way you control many of the other ladies of Atlanta!
You know what? If those are the reasons you do not like me , I am smiling and laughing because I am proud to be disliked for being strong and a force to be reckoned with..
Why do you think I call myself Storm!?!
So I am proud to say, I have stood my ground. I will continue to be here being a great companion and making TRUE gentlemen smile and feel great. I will continue to grow my OTHER businesses. My web design company, my photography business, etc. YES I do really have businesses that I run and that I am so proud of.
You see negative bs only pushes me harder. I am a competitor by nature , always have been.
I fight to live, to hustle and to make sure me and my loves are good!
Now to my haters, and naysayers “Run tell that”
With much pride,
Let me be very clear.. these are the guidelines to meeting me:
If you have not come to visit me in the last 6 mos( unless we were frequent for YEARS prior) you must screen again.
Do NOT contact me telling me that I could or would be making more if I bent my rules. I am not interested and my rules will not change for you.
Screening is REQUIRED .
Rates begin at 250 ( and I prefer multi-hour meetings)
I prefer to only see up to 6 visitors a month. My other businesses take
Being the temporary it girl , or having longevity.
For those who have short term plans being the “It” girl is fine…
No argument there but for those who are really planning to be in sex work for the long haul here’s a few pointers.
Interactions w other companions,
If you aren’t social or do not want to be, then this part really doesn’t have anything to do with you.
If you are social or are trying to be then it does and you should pay attention.
Being younger, thinner, etc ( while it may help in the short run) doesn’t mean anything in the long run.
That’s right I said it. So when dealing with other companions who have put in real time, real years and I do not mean those within the 1 to 6 yr range ( that’s the heaux honeymoon phase) I mean REAL time. Those of us with over a decade of experience, then you need to remember to be respectful.
While you may be hot now, we have the wisdom, the strength and the real info on how to really survive and not just survive but thrive in this business. So many girls with less than 10 yrs experience in this industry think because they are hot right now that they know more or are more successful than those of us who have average or mid range lives .
Sweeties take it from me, I made a shit ton of money first few years, but what is more important than that is that I RAISED A FAMILY OF 5 KIDS , EVEN IN TOUGH, BAD TIMES WITHOUT NEEDING ASSISTANCE FROM THE GOVERNMENT. I MANAGED TO ALWAYS REMAIN PROUD AND DIGNIFIED WITHIN MYSELF.
Those are the important lessons that so many of the up and coming companions do not understand. Forget the glam, forget the jet setting…
WHO ARE YOU AS A PERSON? AND CAN YOU REALLY SUPPORT YOURSELF IN THE LONG RUN? That’s whats important.
So many of you spend lots and lots of time trying to impress and make impressions. Men like companions who are genuinely them, trust me I know. Its been the main point of my branding. I know plenty of other ladies as well who have been able to make a good living and to thrive even in the tough times on just being who they really are.
Of course outside appearance and having some level of poise and class are also important BUT it shouldn’t look or feel forced or fake.
To the newer companions. … STOP talking to us like you know more than us. Stop acting entitled like things should just be handed to you .. STOP acting like spoiled kids when you don’t instantly get your way , or when business is slower and you actually have to use your brain and figure out how to make things work.
ESCORTING IS NOT QUICK MONEY!! IT IS NOT EASY MONEY! Years ago it was , THAT time is gone!
Ladies also please stop harassing each other. We are all adults and its hard enough out here without ladies doing little underhanded subtweets to try to sabotage each others businesses or all out outing and bullying of other companions. Where is your honour? Do you not have any? I have been the victim of some of all of this lately it seems people forget who I am , or what I am and that , that nonsense from companions who COULDN’T walk even a half a mile in my shoes will not be tolerated.
The thing I hear all the time from younger companions is that other companions wont help them, wont talk to them, wont provide them with references… WELL there is a reason. Mainly that the younger generation of companions is very ungrateful and selfish and rude when you do try to help them.
I personally have always wanted to help, I really have. But recently I have been shown by 2 companions that I have helped or done work for why others say no and walk away from helping so many of you. Yes I , Storm and now finding it hard to even want to help or befriend many of you based on your lack of knowing how to have some character and manners when dealing with us “old heads” who came before you.
I give respect and I expect it back period. This goes not just for me but for all the “SENIOR companions of over 10 yrs in this biz” if you cannot talk to us with the respect we deserve then do not talk to us. Do not ask me for help, or have me help you and then you decide to act like you are above or beyond me or any other senior companion.
Doing that comes back to bite you in the ass… other companions do see the traits and they do make note.
On to the second part of longevity or surviving this business… HAVE A PLAN B… HAVE A PLAN C… Do not ever put all your eggs in one basket.
Find out what your strengths are and build and use them. I mean outside of your sexual strengths. Get an education. If you have other talents like for me web design and photography and drawing.. use them. If you have other passions and things that matter start a business based on them. Fashion blogger, food blogger, travel blogger what have you.
Always be looking to build your brand in sex work so that you can then start other brands and businesses off of it.
Learn as much as you can. Create as much as you can. Create your own destiny.
Make a monthly budget ladies and stick to it.
I was like a lot of your the first years or so , I was like whooo hooo, I got hella money let me ball out… Then I wasn’t prepared for when shit hits the fan and me and my kids went through a few years of tough times. But then I found a way to combine my businesses, my talents and a way to make sure that each month I plan ahead and this way I have enough to have groceries, to travel, to pay rent and utilities and to spoil myself and my kids.
Of course shit happens so I am not saying each month goes according to plan BUT it is important to at-least have the plan and limit yourself so that even in slow months you have enough for your rent and important things.
Then about 6 to 8 months of doing it that way you should be able to begin putting aside money each month that you cannot touch even if its just 500.00 for your future nest egg.
Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable and humble , especially with your peers. and clients also like to see that you are human and a real person.
You would be surprised how freely money flows to you when people know you have feelings, aren’t just a shell and when they see you have a purpose or a goal. When you say thank you, when you seem warm and inviting to your peers and clients it goes a long way.
The moral of this blog is.. DO YOU WANT TO BE HOT A YEAR OR TWO OR FIVE BUT ALIENATE ALL THOSE WHO CAN OR WILL BE THERE FOR YOU? OR DO YOU WANT TO BE CONSISTENT, AND STEADY AND BE ABLE TO PROVIDE AND BE COMFORTABLE FOR YEARS TO COME?
One last very important thing. SAFETY AND BOUNDARIES ARE THE STAPLES OF THIS GAME TO SURVIVE IT.
I have been fortunate and have only had one assault happen to me ever in my 17 yrs of sex work. I have been lucky in that I haven’t been abused or exploited. Sex work gave me strength and actually made my life better, even when it sucks it still was enriching for me.
BUT its because I always cared more about my safety, my family and my boundaries and my self respect than I did the money.
MONEY is great but remember you cannot spend it if you are dead. And the money doesn’t matter if you are in harms way .. So remember put yourself and your family first. Put your safety in a close second and your boundaries in a hard third.
Traveling plans updates and specials while traveling.
As of this time Savannah Ga is looking like I may postpone that trip for the week after Thanksgiving.
Naples FL and Tampa/Orlando Florida as of now are still on for next week. ( If something changes that
I will let you know as soon as I know but as of now still looking forward to it)
On both of these trips I will be offering a special rate of 600 for 2 hours while touring.
I normally expect 400 per hour when on Tour.
So it would normally be 800 for 2 hours.
( In some cases the 600 for 2 hours will not be available depending upon the time of companionship for the 2 hours)
I also have Eros ads for Fargo ND and may consider feeler ads in a couple more cities to plan for
more touring after the Holiday season.
Yes I know its going to be freezing. Don’t worry, I will have the proper coats and shoes and more to
tough it out. There is no better time to cozy up to and keep warm under the covers than when its
Chicago, Seattle and Washington DC. YOU ARE GUARANTEED some time with me.
Dates will be posted closer to the actual trips!
I am looking forward to lots of fun.
LADIES WHO NEED HELP WITH MENTORSHIP OR PHOTOS. I WILL BE HAPPY TO HELP YOU
WHEN IN YOUR CITY AS WELL. ( ALL GENDERS ACTUALLY)
I wanted to share a few of my new photos with you here on my blog.
The rest can be found on my site.
While sharing I do want you gentlemen to think about the following.
When you go to the car lot ( I hate this analogy because sex workers are people , not things BUT just making it a situation your male brain can relate to) and you see the nice Porsche with the high quality Italian leather interior and custom paint job and then you see the stock dodge charger ( both nice
cars just different) your brain lets you know based on site alone and specs which car you can afford and which one you cannot.
In other words NOTHING ( regardless of moments in the past , back when , when I wasn’t doing well and ran specials etc or couldn’t afford certain things I can now) should say to you when looking at the last 2 years of how I have run my business that you can contact me and expect me to take 40 or 60 …
RATES BEGIN AT 200 unless I decide ONCE IN A BLUE MOON to do a 150 special.
Girlfriend companionship BEGINS AT 300
The past is the past and that is not my present and its def not my future.
So you will need to honor and accept the current rates and rates that may increase as I near my retirement this year in 2019.
If you cannot afford my rates, then save up till you can. Seeing a companion is a luxury, something you treat yourself to. Or contact another lovely lady who you can afford there are many. BUT honestly 200 to 300 is beyond fair beyond reasonable and honestly I feel as though I should be asking more and I DO have higher rates and arrangements for more discerning and elite gents.
I guess what I am trying to say is be respectful of ladies and do not contact those of us who you can tell put effort into our websites , outfits, photos and marketing and locations with low ball insulting offers. It is maddening and disrespectful so
please do not do it.
I’ve been pondering and gloating in my own mind about how many providers in Atlanta and MEN mainly in Atlanta used to talk shit about me or talk down to me because YES I am human and for a few years of relocating to Atlanta I had my share of ups and downs. I stayed true to who I am and I kept it 100 if I needed help, I publicly asked for it. No shame to my game. I have kids so whatever I had to do to make sure they were good, fuck my pride and image.. I did it.
Now here we are and for a little over a year now, I’ve been in a much better place in more ways than one. So now that you guys can’t take advantage of me at all. I do not have to negotiate rates and now that some of the Atlanta ladies can’t gossip,laugh or talk shit anymore about me… NOW ya’ll mad! HAHA , I always told you I’d have the last laugh.
I never lied when I needed something , I really needed it. I never scammed anyone ever. OH and begging as I used to always explain required expecting something in return for nothing. NEVER was that me. My time had value and in most cases unless the man decided he wanted nothing in return, I paid my debt with my flesh and time.
So I say this wholeheartedly, I see who I want when I want , I do not have to put up with anyone’s nonsense anymore. And unless for some reason my life changes, retirement is set for me end of Jan 2019.
To the real gents and other companions out there, I hope to meet you and share some fun before I move on.
MEN OF ATLANTA and men visiting Atlanta also…
Let me make my position 100 percent crystal clear to you.
These are things I will not put up with when you
are trying to visit me:
1. READ MY SITE FIRST. IF YOU DON’T AND YOU IRRITATE ME BY ASKING ME DUMB CRAP THEN I WILL PROBABLY IGNORE YOU.
2. DO NOT SPEAK TO ME WITH BABY, BABE, SWEETIE ETC. WE ARE NOT FAMILIAR WITH EACH OTHER YET, PLEASE REFER TO ME BY THE NAME
YOU SEE ON MY SITE OR MY AD.
3. DO NOT HIT ME UP WITH THE FOLLOWING ONE WORD PHRASES
Hey, Hi, Sup, U avail, Available Speak to me like
an adult trying to conduct some business.
4. DO NOT CONTACT ME TALKING ABOUT “NOW” YOU HAVE TO SCREEN FIRST, I HAVE TO PREPARE FIRST, THERE ARE NO NOW APPOINTMENTS.
5. DO NOT MENTION SERVICES, DO NOT MENTION RATES AGAIN ITS ON MY SITE.DO NOT SAY YOU NEED 15, OR YOU NEED 30 (MINUTES) MY RATE
STRUCTURE AND PARAMETERS AND EXPECTATIONS ARE CLEAR.
6. YOU WILL SCREEN AND THAT’S DONE VIA MY BOOKING PAGE SET OF INSTRUCTIONS. EITHER SCREEN OR DON’T MEET. NON NEGOTIABLE.
You all are NOT going to bypass my rules and my boundaries. Lots of ladies may be letting you get away with nonsense BUT I am not one of them. I can and will sit and handle my other business ventures just fine until you ( meaning male clients) act accordingly , read my site and contact me with some manners. I am a patient woman!
Things an escort is supposedly NOT supposed to to do.. ( I am being sarcastic of course)
1. Have a mind of her own.<br
2. Stand up for what she believes is right or wrong.
3. Have boundaries.
4. Be independent and uncontrolled.
5. Be happy no matter what size she is, feel beautiful no matter what size she is.
6. Have a voice
7. Have a real life, a family, a life partner
8. Be an actual business person, perhaps even with other businesses
9. BE HUMAN
10. Care about her safety and her rules and ENFORCE them.
I do NOT care what anyone else wants or expects in regard to how I run my business my show. My body is mine, even if you pay for it. My personality and my soul are mine, even if you pay. Therefore all those things on the list above that so many clients don’t want us as companions to have, I am going to do or have.
I expect and require that you respect my feelings, my boundaries and my safety.If you cannot do those things then we are not likely a good match.
I am extremely intelligent, mature and strong willed but with a warmth that makes almost anyone quite comfortable with me. Treat me like I am a human being, a lady ( regardless of my occupation) and I assure you that you will be well rewarded for your actions.
So because sex work will never go away..
The Masses have hung in there and it seems
Yesbackpage.com is promising..
Now here’s a few tips.. ( and these should apply to all escort marketing) By the way I am by no means “entitled” or “whorearchy” practicing..
BUT what I am is honest and I will speak my mind and call it like I see it.
I personally do not care how you market. I do not care what you
call yourself so long as its truthful and fits you. For instance
for me to advertise myself as slim, athletic would be ridiculous.
Got the example, so here we go. I’ve spoken on this before but just
want to speak on it before I get into the other issues with the new listings.
Stop using terms that you see other ladies use if they do not fit you. Don’t say, premier, elite, high class, classy or vip etc if that’s not you.
IT IS OK TO BE (IN MY CARDI B VOICE) regular smegular..
When you use terms that do not fit you, the clients expect a certain thing. When you cannot live up to it the bullshit begins, so just be yourself.
Again not being a “whorearchist” but you cannot say for instance something I read that said, “high end classy and elite
60 no rush, pick a hole , come thru PULL UP!”
That is NOT how the ladies in the categories you hope to fit it speak. Again I don’t care what you charge. I don’t care how you run your shit BUT MAKE IT MAKE SENSE…
But mainly I am writing this because some of you don’t seem to understand. And to the managers and pimps posting ladies ads, PAY ATTENTION!
STOP posting naked pics. Leave something to the imagination.
STOP talking about holes, sucking dick and pussy.
STOP breaking down what you do and what you charge like on a menu.
STOP mentioning drugs in the ads
WHY? WELL BECAUSE WE WOULD LIKE TO KEEP THE NEW SITES THAT ARE POPPING UP, YESBACKPAGE BEING ONE OF THEM AND AT THIS RATE Y’ALL GONNA GET IT SHUT DOWN IN NO TIME!
Save all the naked , pussy poppin pics and verbiage for your private booking contact with your prospective clients.
North Atlanta’s ( Hell possibly ALL of Atlanta’s only Ebony UPSCALE BBW)
There are a few non black classy VIP BBW companions in Atlanta area but no black ones that I can think of other than myself that really are what they say and not just using the words simply because everyone else uses them.
I do not say this to be cocky or arrogant I say it because it is fact. I have actually tried to mentor a few BBW ladies here in ATL and abroad to show them that they can in fact market on a VIP level same as the slimmer ladies. However the men seem to continue to convince them that they cannot. ( I so wish they would listen to me instead of the naysayers)
But, here I am a lone little morsel out here in Atlanta, marketing something that the masses are not used to and cant comprehend. I don’t bend though haha
I remain true to my brand my marketing scheme. And being the lone wolf does have its advantages.
So gentlemen who are secretly turned on by us robust girls, who want to approach but are worried about what the fellow hobbyists, mongers,and punters will say…
I say this to you , Are we in high school? Are you not an adult who can make his own decisions?
I invite you to come and meet me and spend some time with me. I promise to be beautifully dressed, face beautifully made up, lips pretty and ready for a smooch.
To be well spoken, well versed on many subjects and a companion who regardless of body type can be with you in a 5 star setting and fit in so well that no one will
assume how we met.
Gowns, I got em, jeans, I got em.
Heels I got them, sneakers I got them. Lingerie well I have a small personal warehouse of that.. lol.. No but seriously I do.
Sundresses, pant suits all of it whatever I need to be appropriate I have.
Because I bring all of that to the table, I will not entertain your offers gents of the 40/50/60 mess that you keep trying to get most ladies especially WOC bbw companions in Georgia to accept. WILL NOT HAPPEN HERE!
So to meet me you WILL treat me with the same respect you treat any other lady with.
You will screen. You will pay my rate. You will be a gentleman or I will be ok with not meeting you.
Hopefully you can be mature and understand that size has nothing to do with donation