Life is a good thing even when it’s tough! Now lately business has been a little slower …
But I have had an amazing summer and it’s going to be a great fall!
Everyone in my households bdays that still live at home are born in September so we celebrated 2 of my kids bdays and then my loves (my partner of 11 yrs) bday.
I am sharing some photos from my sweeties bday weekend because it was so wonderful (yeah I planned it, sex workers make great girlfriends and wives ha!) but also because these are the kinds of surroundings and restaurants etc that a lady like me enjoys.
I enjoy and love the finer things in life and I won’t apologize for that. I look forward to traveling a lot this year and to building more memorable experiences in both my personal life and with my clients!
Not to mention I have a list of about 20 ladies who I seriously want to meet in DC as a location and hang out. I am planning it and will send an invite to those ladies once I have it figured out!
Enjoy these pics from my life and remember to always take time to be grateful and to enjoy the “roses”.
Time for me to figure out how to feed my lingerie and beach addiction haha…
In other words time to hustle and make more income.
Be well and be great!
( some of these are like screenshots , lol but hey I may crop them to perfection when I have more time )
By the way, I will be touring the following locations
I decided to just drop in this morning and share a blog lol.
It’s been a bit since i blogged or at least it feels like it has. My summer so far has been a little lackluster. However I am blessed and cannot complain. This summer has been a lot slower in regard to the usual amount of web design clients I get in the summer months. I know a lot of ladies have been complaining about business being slow and others have to wait until the fall to do new pics etc. So yes I’ve felt a bit of a pinch of financial stress but I am still grateful for what me and my family do have. With that being said ” HEY EVERYONE , I CAN USE MORE WEB DESIGN AND ASSISTANT WORK STAT!!”
Other than that life is good. My adult kids , even with their own financial struggles this summer are doing well and are good human beings and that is most important. My younger kids well, its Summer and they are enjoying it. In August same as last year we all , including my grandkids go on vacation together. I only get to see them all together once a year for a week. Since my older 3 live back in Maryland and Delaware area where I am originally from myself.
So I love Summer because I get to see my whole bunch. I guess however I have embarked on an endless summer. Last year I made up my mind I was going to go to as many different beaches , when I tour as possible and so far I think I have hit about 7 beaches. More to come!!
Due to the slowness of the Summer and the cross country stings being done in so many places , I had to put my Chicago plans on hold AGAIN , and it is very frustrating to me, because I WANT TO SEE CHICAGO AND EXPERIENCE IT MORE THAN YOU CAN IMAGINE. ( There are lots of places and countries , I want to see but its definitely one of the top choices) . I wanted to do my traveling while school was out but it doesn’t seem that its going to line up that way. So I will hopefully have an uptick in business soon and be able to make both my dreams and the dreams of my gentlemen admirers a reality.
I am always, always available for FLY ME TO YOU! I prefer it in fact as it alleviates the brunt of the expense from falling on me. SO BY ALL MEANS, FLY ME TO YOU 🙂
This summer in a nutshell for me so far , has been filled with family fun, water, and love and great food!
I cannot wait to share more summer experiences with you after my family vacay in August.
On another note, I will have some new pics and videos hopefully of myself to share by the end of this week. If my current web assignments and assistant work doesn’t keep me so busy that I just don’t have the time.. Hopefully I can carve some time out for my admirers !
See you soon and remember , Life is a Beach ! ( Enjoy it)
This blog is interesting and I love it, of course .. its my blog.
But it has never gotten to the point my beloved stormspeaks.com blog was at.
That blog had a stat reading of 480,000 views. It was a love project of mine for almost 7 yrs.
But here we are! So onward moving, I cannot cry over spilled milk and wanted to just share things with you about me if you are a gentlemen who is new to visiting companions and escorts, or just a guy who hasn’t heard of me or had the opportunity to get to know me.
So some things you may find interesting about me….
I am extremely intelligent and well spoken. Lot’s of this is in my bio on my website , but in case you haven’t ventured over there yet I could read second year college level at age eight years old. I run two web companies one for mainstream industries and one for sex workers. I am also a booking and branding assistant for other companions nationwide. (BTW I am happy to build a web design for any of you gentlemen’s business and do your SEO “search engine optimization” . Don’t be shy ask me BUT do not expect an exchange of services.
I am a creative. I love and enjoy anything that allows me to create something visually stimulating to others. I can paint, and draw just about anything and anyone you can think of!! I won awards ALL throughout school for my artistic ability and was in gifted and talented art programs throughout my school career. I got accepted to college MAINLY on my art abilities , not my grades as by then I had discovered boys and lost my focus. ( I kick myself for it daily lol) Prior to the discovery of boys I was a straight A honor roll and perfect attendance kid for YEARS on end. Back to the creative … I have many talents. I can also do makeup, hair-styling , graphics and you name it . If it is something that leads to something being improved or beautiful, I am in!
My next skill and one of my BEST, I HAVE CHEF LEVEL COOKING SKILLS.. self taught and well as anyone my age knows..
my generation grew up watching out grandmothers and aunts cook. I can throw down in a kitchen. This is one of the reasons I offer a chef session type date. It’s one of the two out of the norm sessions I offer. I also offer a session for men who just need a sexy “therapist” if you will to discuss their emotional pains and business pains with. So many gents have told me how great I was to talk to and I have had some come wanting sex but then having guilt due to divorcing or personal life issues who I made feel warm, welcome and who I just was there for. Like a paid shoulder to lean on. I love those dates just as much as the sensual ones because for me being a companion is about the “experience” ‘and really
connecting with the gentlemen I spend time with.
So I am A REAL GIRLFRIEND EXPERIENCE…( without the relationship lol)
Good conversation, maturity, compassion and PASSION ! A woman who can cook you a meal and then
be your dessert! All while making you feel like you made a genuine friend. I mean It gets no more girlfriend experience than that !
Areas you will find me in more than other are Brunswick Ga, Tampa FL, Baltimore Md, Atlanta Ga, Gainesville Ga, Washington Dc and soon San Jose , Ca and Chicago IL. I hope to make your acquaintance when I pass through.
I am sure there will be some hate after I blog this, but I see the term used so often that
I really do need everyone to know where it came from and how.
I think those who follow me, or know me know me to be genuine and honest so trust me I was
in fact the creator of the Kings Treatment service that many now list on their sites and ads.
I coined that phrase back in 2007. I wanted to stand out from the general ,cliche term of GFE
so alas the term Kings Treatment was born! Eventually I’d begin to see other ladies EVERYWHERE use it about a year after I came up with it. I wish I would have Trademarked it lol.
Anyone who knows me from Baltimore of Atlanta will tell you , they truly did see
it first with me, meaning that term.
I wanted to create an experience that was truly a connection. It was to include
wine, a meal, a full body massage and then GFE ( although I do not subscribe to the typical
menu version of GFE for me it means a romantic,genuine connection we share during our time together)
Now I am sure other ladies have taken the term I actually invented and made it their own and I have
no issue with that. I guess I am actually PROUD to have invented a term that supersedes the
typical GFE experience.
I remember when guys used to actually just email me to know what Kings Treatment was because
they honestly hadn’t heard of it.
So here we are 12 yrs after I coined that escort term and I see it even on ladies sites that
I do work for now and I just wanted to smile, and share that it was your own little helper
STORM who actually created that service term..
HAHA .. You’re welcome!
I guess I am happy to have left my mark somehow.. lol
And to the gents!
YES I still offer my King’s Treatment sessions!
So I mingle here and there in a few places on Reddit. I wouldn’t say I am the most frequent Redditor in the world but hey, lol.
Anyway… once in a while in late night boredom I post in a Pics of BBW’s reddit . My last post was probably a little over two months ago.
So imagine my surprise when out of the blue some guy decides to reply to my photo post with “she wants the bag( emoji) and the bars ( not sure what he meant by that as I do not do drugs at all,lol) and that she posts on every site.
BTW the rules of this Reddit forum is that there is no advertising allowed. So I have never done anything there but say hello, post a pic. If anyone contacts me outside of there or asks questions I may offer info and details but all in all I just post there when I am bored and have pics I like.
So I basically let him know that it was a little nuts to post on a 2 month old post and that I was not bothered or moved by his posting.
So here is where he gets super dumb. HE decides to go find my online ads and post one of them to the forum. Keep in mind I wasn’t using the Reddit area to advertise as I know the rules. So he just basically gave me free advertising !!! HA! I am sure he was trying to shame me. I also elaborated after he shared the links and let him know that I cannot be shamed and that there is MUCH more to me than just my escort career.
The whole point is when will internet trolls learn. I and most sex workers are NOT ashamed. We have nothing to be ashamed of. And next time you want to try to get a rise out of me, don’t be so silly as to give me free press and free advertising .. silly silly…
That is all. Have a good day!
Happy Holidays to all and to the Reddit guy. Next time try to find something positive to do. It is the holidays , I am sure there must be other things for you to focus on. I am flattered however to have gotten a rise out of you.. lol.
( OH AND BEFORE YOU WASTE YOUR TIME OR ENERGY WITH ANY FAT JOKES, RACE JOKES WHATEVER YOU MAY TRY SIR, SAVE IT.. NONE OF THAT BOTHERS ME LOVE. I AM ONE STRONG LADY AND AN INTELLIGENT ONE TOO)
Being the temporary it girl , or having longevity.
For those who have short term plans being the “It” girl is fine…
No argument there but for those who are really planning to be in sex work for the long haul here’s a few pointers.
Interactions w other companions,
If you aren’t social or do not want to be, then this part really doesn’t have anything to do with you.
If you are social or are trying to be then it does and you should pay attention.
Being younger, thinner, etc ( while it may help in the short run) doesn’t mean anything in the long run.
That’s right I said it. So when dealing with other companions who have put in real time, real years and I do not mean those within the 1 to 6 yr range ( that’s the heaux honeymoon phase) I mean REAL time. Those of us with over a decade of experience, then you need to remember to be respectful.
While you may be hot now, we have the wisdom, the strength and the real info on how to really survive and not just survive but thrive in this business. So many girls with less than 10 yrs experience in this industry think because they are hot right now that they know more or are more successful than those of us who have average or mid range lives .
Sweeties take it from me, I made a shit ton of money first few years, but what is more important than that is that I RAISED A FAMILY OF 5 KIDS , EVEN IN TOUGH, BAD TIMES WITHOUT NEEDING ASSISTANCE FROM THE GOVERNMENT. I MANAGED TO ALWAYS REMAIN PROUD AND DIGNIFIED WITHIN MYSELF.
Those are the important lessons that so many of the up and coming companions do not understand. Forget the glam, forget the jet setting…
WHO ARE YOU AS A PERSON? AND CAN YOU REALLY SUPPORT YOURSELF IN THE LONG RUN? That’s whats important.
So many of you spend lots and lots of time trying to impress and make impressions. Men like companions who are genuinely them, trust me I know. Its been the main point of my branding. I know plenty of other ladies as well who have been able to make a good living and to thrive even in the tough times on just being who they really are.
Of course outside appearance and having some level of poise and class are also important BUT it shouldn’t look or feel forced or fake.
To the newer companions. … STOP talking to us like you know more than us. Stop acting entitled like things should just be handed to you .. STOP acting like spoiled kids when you don’t instantly get your way , or when business is slower and you actually have to use your brain and figure out how to make things work.
ESCORTING IS NOT QUICK MONEY!! IT IS NOT EASY MONEY! Years ago it was , THAT time is gone!
Ladies also please stop harassing each other. We are all adults and its hard enough out here without ladies doing little underhanded subtweets to try to sabotage each others businesses or all out outing and bullying of other companions. Where is your honour? Do you not have any? I have been the victim of some of all of this lately it seems people forget who I am , or what I am and that , that nonsense from companions who COULDN’T walk even a half a mile in my shoes will not be tolerated.
The thing I hear all the time from younger companions is that other companions wont help them, wont talk to them, wont provide them with references… WELL there is a reason. Mainly that the younger generation of companions is very ungrateful and selfish and rude when you do try to help them.
I personally have always wanted to help, I really have. But recently I have been shown by 2 companions that I have helped or done work for why others say no and walk away from helping so many of you. Yes I , Storm and now finding it hard to even want to help or befriend many of you based on your lack of knowing how to have some character and manners when dealing with us “old heads” who came before you.
I give respect and I expect it back period. This goes not just for me but for all the “SENIOR companions of over 10 yrs in this biz” if you cannot talk to us with the respect we deserve then do not talk to us. Do not ask me for help, or have me help you and then you decide to act like you are above or beyond me or any other senior companion.
Doing that comes back to bite you in the ass… other companions do see the traits and they do make note.
On to the second part of longevity or surviving this business… HAVE A PLAN B… HAVE A PLAN C… Do not ever put all your eggs in one basket.
Find out what your strengths are and build and use them. I mean outside of your sexual strengths. Get an education. If you have other talents like for me web design and photography and drawing.. use them. If you have other passions and things that matter start a business based on them. Fashion blogger, food blogger, travel blogger what have you.
Always be looking to build your brand in sex work so that you can then start other brands and businesses off of it.
Learn as much as you can. Create as much as you can. Create your own destiny.
Make a monthly budget ladies and stick to it.
I was like a lot of your the first years or so , I was like whooo hooo, I got hella money let me ball out… Then I wasn’t prepared for when shit hits the fan and me and my kids went through a few years of tough times. But then I found a way to combine my businesses, my talents and a way to make sure that each month I plan ahead and this way I have enough to have groceries, to travel, to pay rent and utilities and to spoil myself and my kids.
Of course shit happens so I am not saying each month goes according to plan BUT it is important to at-least have the plan and limit yourself so that even in slow months you have enough for your rent and important things.
Then about 6 to 8 months of doing it that way you should be able to begin putting aside money each month that you cannot touch even if its just 500.00 for your future nest egg.
Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable and humble , especially with your peers. and clients also like to see that you are human and a real person.
You would be surprised how freely money flows to you when people know you have feelings, aren’t just a shell and when they see you have a purpose or a goal. When you say thank you, when you seem warm and inviting to your peers and clients it goes a long way.
The moral of this blog is.. DO YOU WANT TO BE HOT A YEAR OR TWO OR FIVE BUT ALIENATE ALL THOSE WHO CAN OR WILL BE THERE FOR YOU? OR DO YOU WANT TO BE CONSISTENT, AND STEADY AND BE ABLE TO PROVIDE AND BE COMFORTABLE FOR YEARS TO COME?
One last very important thing. SAFETY AND BOUNDARIES ARE THE STAPLES OF THIS GAME TO SURVIVE IT.
I have been fortunate and have only had one assault happen to me ever in my 17 yrs of sex work. I have been lucky in that I haven’t been abused or exploited. Sex work gave me strength and actually made my life better, even when it sucks it still was enriching for me.
BUT its because I always cared more about my safety, my family and my boundaries and my self respect than I did the money.
MONEY is great but remember you cannot spend it if you are dead. And the money doesn’t matter if you are in harms way .. So remember put yourself and your family first. Put your safety in a close second and your boundaries in a hard third.
I hope everyone is enjoying the true beginning of the Holiday season.
I spent my time in Florida last week for a whole week. While the trip didn’t go as I would have liked business wise , overall I had a wonderful trip and a wonderful time.
I visited the beautiful Naples Florida ( amazingly fun nightlife. The Blue Martini is amazing) and also the Treasure Island area of the Tampa Beaches. I had some of the best Jamaican food you could imagine while passing through Tampa.
Next stop was Orlando ,Florida and Kissimmee Florida. I loved my time there as well. One of my favorite things is a good , and huge Jersey Mikes Italian sub ( I get mine made a special way) and my friend Kristen Lickens got to witness it.
I also enjoyed some great pizza at Giordano’s in Orlando. It was quite tasty.
The ONLY thing I found questionable and had questions about was…
A place called Machine Gun America with the tagline of “Fun for the whole family” ( and they wonder why we have gun issues in America) Only in Florida can kids come and play and use weapons… ( mind blown)
But overall I loved my time in Florida. I go there all the time but usually just for 24 hours to pick my son up and right back , this was my first time staying there for days in quite a few years.
Now its back to real life…
Today I begin cooking my families Thanksgiving feast. I hope you and your families have a wonderful holiday season!
I may not come back to work in Florida , Oh but I will be back to play and enjoy the area ! ( and to do some more photos lol)
**Side-note: I love when I get to show and remind my haters, doubters and those who would love to see me fail that I have a good life ( for me) and that I am thriving and happy. So to the BOYS not men of Atlanta who like to talk crap, insinuate negative mess, or who have always wanted me to fail. I am growing and glowing… good day!***
Traveling plans updates and specials while traveling.
As of this time Savannah Ga is looking like I may postpone that trip for the week after Thanksgiving.
Naples FL and Tampa/Orlando Florida as of now are still on for next week. ( If something changes that
I will let you know as soon as I know but as of now still looking forward to it)
On both of these trips I will be offering a special rate of 600 for 2 hours while touring.
I normally expect 400 per hour when on Tour.
So it would normally be 800 for 2 hours.
( In some cases the 600 for 2 hours will not be available depending upon the time of companionship for the 2 hours)
I also have Eros ads for Fargo ND and may consider feeler ads in a couple more cities to plan for
more touring after the Holiday season.
Yes I know its going to be freezing. Don’t worry, I will have the proper coats and shoes and more to
tough it out. There is no better time to cozy up to and keep warm under the covers than when its
Chicago, Seattle and Washington DC. YOU ARE GUARANTEED some time with me.
Dates will be posted closer to the actual trips!
I am looking forward to lots of fun.
LADIES WHO NEED HELP WITH MENTORSHIP OR PHOTOS. I WILL BE HAPPY TO HELP YOU
WHEN IN YOUR CITY AS WELL. ( ALL GENDERS ACTUALLY)