I am by nature competitive, a perfectionist ( strangely enought NOT a neat freak )but all other aspects of how my mind works,how I plan how I do things is very calculated. I know I was supposed to begin touring in Nov 2017 and here we are April going into May.
Yall are probably like whats taking her so long to go..
Wardrobe , shoes, hair , photos and my kids well being while I hit the road are my main things I am finalizing.
Wardrobe , shoes, hair are nearing completion.
Photos and video are also almost ready to move full steam ahead( just need to drop a little more tummy for
certain things for photos)
Kids are done with school in May.
Not to mention kind of waiting for dust to settle to see which sites are left standing for me to advertise on while I tour due to the crazy of Fosta and Sesta.
God willing RS2K , EROS AND SLIXA hold on for me….
This is my retirement year, from face to face meet escorting. JAN 2019 is it.
I will still be doing web design, mentoring and assisting for other girls and I am moving into selling my pics and into Camming and strict fetish work(mainly virtual).
But as for companionship sessions etc JAN 2019 is it. I am pretty much semi retired now. This tour and the occasional date here and there are it for me currently.
So guys book me, show your support, the money I make and am able to save will help me and my family move, relocate and start anew and I am excited for it!
Ladies always and forever visit www.takenbystorm.biz I am here to help that will never end.
See you soon!
April 16 till May 9th.
I am preparing to hit my first tour city Chicago IL.
So before I leave I am happy to see mannerly, fun, warm Atlanta area men.
I have been getting lots of hits from my old side of Georgia Cumming Ga. I am not sure how everyone is finding me and my site again. But I loved the gents of Cumming Ga and am happy to see any of you. (After screening of course)
My rates have increased since I was there. Better life, better circumstances so I am able to be selective and set and keep my rates. I was dabbling and doing some web design then but now my web companies really do take up lots of my time, that and being a booking and screening assistant for other ladies.
So my main concentration , client wise till my retirement in Jan 2019 will be the gents in the tour cities. So I will have limited availability here in Georgia. So please follow directions and prebook and screen so that I feel comfortable seeing you.
I will be hitting about 2 cities and states per month till DEC beginning in May 2018.
Chicago and Washington DC will be my two main points period.
So Georgia guys,if you want to see me , I encourage you to put your best foot forward and contact me and book as soon as you can.
Deposits are the best way to show me you are serious and sincere about spending time with me.
Beauty and sexiness has no age.
I took these selfies of me today to prove once and for all, that at 48 I look younger than
lots of the young ladies and men who comment about older companions.
Sexy is sexy .. period , No matter the age!
So today I had a BUM come thru my Twitter timeline.
I guess he was offended by comments I had made about review board society.
I will repeat here since as everyone knows, I always speak my peace.
I am GLAD, happy that most of the review sites are gone.
Now women, companions, regardless of gender, race, size can have control of the industry as we should since WE are the ones pouring our blood sweat and tears into it.
HEAR THIS!! This is one industry, occupation where the customer is always right DOES NOT APPLY! I do not care if you are spending a million! We are people, not things. It’s our body, our mental threshold on the line. So guess what, NO you do NOT have the control.
Too many girls who came into the industry in the last 10 years or so have been brainwashed, bullied into thinking that you had the control. I have assisted some and mentored others and I know first hand the fear, misery and anxiety reviews caused these sex workers.
SO YES, I say good riddance. I will be happy as fuck when USASEXGUIDE and Jackson get swept away into the wind as well!! That one is truly the worst of the worst.
BUT then we had dummy number two who got upset by me mentioning what my screening requirements were, and he had the nerve to say
“thats too much to go through to see a BBW , I could understand if you were smoking hot”
For those of you who are new to the party. I am very confident, I may even be borderline conceited and I admit and own that. But lets be clear I will be 48 on April 14TH and I’d say my melanin has preserved me like fine wine. Make no mistake. I know I am beautiful, at any size and at all times. So none of you trolls can ever remove my crown. My crown stays on my head even when I sleep.. ya dig? Good!
Therefore you will follow my rules, my screening policy and pay my rates or I will ignore you, leave you to become best friends with your hand and PAY YOU NO MIND!
You men think because we lost sites and after the ashes settle are getting our strength and courage back, that its time for you to try to exploit, insult, bully, take advantage of.
NO HELL, TO THE NO!!!
I am powerful, I am me, I will always be me. I am not for everybody and PLENTY of you men are certainly not
what or who I am interested in meeting.
I PICK AND CHOOSE WHO I SPEND MY TIME WITH. MY BODY, MY MIND , MY HOME, MY RULES!!!
REAL GENTLEMEN, WHO REALIZE PROVIDERS ARE HUMAN AND NOT THINGS AND ITEMS TO BE RATED , APPRECIATE THAT , RESPECT THAT
AND FOLLOW A COMPANIONS LEAD!
Those are the men I want to meet!!!
The rest of you , who are disrespectful and see companions as things ….. Can go kick rocks!!!
Hey, I didn’t think I’d have to dust off my “no bullshit guns” this soon.
But child, Yall here in Georgia are doing the most.
( ACTUALLY THIS POST IS ABOUT MY PHONE CALLS AND EMAILS BUT I POST THIS AS THE VOICE OF MANY WHO MAY NOT KNOW HOW TO SPEAK THEIR MIND ON THIS.. REAL GENTLEMEN GIVE EXTRA, AND SEND GIFTS AND SHOW SUPPORT TO US DURING THIS TROUBLING TIME THE REST OF YOU ARE BOYS, PREDATORS, GROW UP)
I am not here for the shenagins and foolery. I am not going to let you exploit me or
take advantage of me. Understand the following, I began my companion career on Yahoo personals and
in AOL chatrooms , then moved to Eros and Cityvibe in the Washington DC area where I ran ad
campaigns for quite sometime. Yes then I too used Backpage and Craigslist. ( So trust I know how to get through this. I am a real OG)
YES and proudly I say yes , I had many not so great financial times and then I had great financial times.
I have been on all ends of the spectrum. One thing anyone who has ever dealt with me
regardless of the price point, and regardless of if they liked it or not can and will
say about me is that I demand and command respect.
I am never desperate enough for you to come at me crazy.
NO I am not going to accept 40/50/60 I said that a few times in the past I may have seen ONE person here and there if an emergency involving my kids presented itself but you better trust and BELIEVE its not the norm nor will it ever be.
I have not had to resort to anything of that nature in like 2 yrs atleast and NOT ever going to again.
So those of you who think we are all out here desperate and that you don’t have to screen, that you don’t have to pay our rate and that you can come through explicitly on phone and email and that we NEED you..
NO YOU ARE MISTAKEN, YOU NEED ME, US, .. I DON’T NEED YOU , NOT IF YOU ARE
ANYTHING LESS THAN A MANNERLY , MATURE GENTLEMAN!
I have zero tolerance for mess!
If anything this is going to make most of us ladies stronger. Your control of the market is gone.
You used review boards and threats and bullshit to get girls to cower to your demands. Guess what
now because you barely know where to find us, YOU ARE GOING TO GET SO HORNY , LONELY ( and by the way
these harsh words are NOT for the gentlemen clients who know how to treat us , this is to the guys who
behave like children and predators) AND DESPERATE THAT LIKE IT OR NOT, YOU’RE GOING TO SCREEN AND
PAY WHAT WE SAY.
As much of an annoyance and burden and not having as many places to advertise is…
it is also a blessing. BUT make no mistake I am anti fosta and sesta, because it will
ruin many sex workers lives, it will make us homeless , hungry and unable to finish our educations,
to care for our kids, so I HATE THE LAWS….
But… I am glad it has also taken away the power of the men to hold us hostage and run and
ruin our industry.
SO GUYS GET READY , CUZ US LADIES ARE REBUILDING , RETHINKING, MOVING FORWARD, FIXING OUR CROWNS
AND ABOUT TO COME BACK IN A BLAZE OF GLORY..
Don’t believe me .. just watch!
Now get ready to learn to be mature gents IF you hope to meet anyone ever again.
BTW if you are in Atlanta and you are just pathetic and cheap and just someone I do
not wish to see.. here’s some spots in Atlanta where you may fit in and find what you seek.
If in Kennesaw/Acworth area Chastain Rd
If in Atlanta Moreland Ave, Old National Hwy, Cascade Rd, Fulton Industrial Parkway
If in Gainesville Jesse Jewell Parkway
Like….. try those but as for me my rates are posted on my site and I am screening
and holding true on my rates.
That is All
“Your Queen” ( Whether you like it or not lol)
Lots of ladies find themselves in a precarious situation right now. I am blessed currently , but I am humble because my situation could change as quickly as anyones. I am writing this blog to encourage, but I do realize when people are stressed and panicked sometimes they cannot receive certain messages as
they normally would.
Please try to understand my statements and please also know I have been where many of you are now…
So I have walked in your shoes before..
I made mistakes before when I was panicked and in survival mode. I do not encourage them, but I do know that even me in certain situations that may unfold as the future goes on, I could find myself there as well. I pray I don’t
and I pray most of you do not either.
I know that struggle and panic makes us grasp at straws and begin to accept lower rates.
DO NOT DO THIS UNLESS YOU ARE TRULY WITHOUT FOOD OR SHELTER. But if you are not, and or don’t have kids to
think of, then STAND YOUR GROUND.
The predators are already coming out of the woodwork. Already in hopes of taking advantage.
Men on TER before it came down were actually already glad that sites were being taken away. They were
celebrating thinking it would force us to lower rates and to basically stop screening.
Not to mention the Pimps who are already circling and responding to any ads they find online.
Men think that we will have to lower our standards and our rates. I BEG you ladies and males and trans companions.
DO NOT DO THIS UNLESS IT’S AN EMERGENCY AND YOU REALLY HAVE TO. But otherwise, this is actually when you should RAISE them if you can.
I am not speaking from a place of entitlement, I am speaking facts. If you have less clients less of a place to get them from but your bills and expenses have not changed you need higher rates to account for the fact that you are seeing less people.
If you charged 100 and it took 10 people to get you to 1,000 you may not be able to find 10 people now.
So prepare to say , only find 5 , youll need to charge them 200 or 300 now to make sure you are ok.
Make sense , I hope it does.
And most definitely as I said the predators of all types are out and about seeking to take advantage, or to harm sex workers right now.
SCREEN YOUR ASSES OFF. You are losing verification and review sites so get used to and learn how to screen
by collecting real life info. It can make the difference in meeting a cop, a rapist. NO SCREENING IS GUARANTEED TO PROTECT YOU..but ATLEAST IN A WORST CASE SCENARIO YOU AND ANYONE ELSE YOU TRUST WILL HAVE THE INFO NEEDED, TO TRACE YOUR STEPS.
Most importantly , regroup, try not to panic, I know its tough and BUT remember as I have said for over a year to you all…
Each one teach one and SLOW AND STEADY WINS THE RACE.
Be patient, be attentive, stay up to date and well read on things affecting our community and reach out to me and others who are
here and able to help you navigate this.
Why Companions Charge what they charge..
( I had an idiot tell me today that I am too old to charge what I charge, this after he began with how beautiful I was, don’t get mad honey because you cannot afford me… lol)
Men, I blogged about this before but you still don’t get it some of you.
I want you to understand what goes into a professional, upscale companions business.
I hope that sharing this with you will help you to understand that regardless of race, weight, age, etc we deserve our rates.
1.Attire, ( lingerie and outerwear, shoes etc) This amount honestly is usually in the thousands especially when we
are doing photoshoots or preparing for a tour.
2.Hair and hygiene, probably about 3,000 per year.
3. For those who do not host at home, thousands per year in Hotel fees.
4. Tech and phone products , thousands of dollars
5. Plane, train, cars … well as you can guess this figure is HUGE.
6. Websites and marketing up to 2,000 a year or more.
SO next time you part your lips to complain about what a companion is charging…
DON’T .. shut up and be a gentleman and pay her requested rate, and do her requested screening.
WE spend alot of time , making sure we give you the experience you expect.
Show some respect!
Some of you gentlemen, may have realized it is not harder to find companions.
The last month of politics and laws have caused many of the sites lots of Atlanta Gentlemen were used to using go away.
Please Google FOSTA and SESTA if you are not aware of why Craigslist Casual, Nightshift and other sites have now shut down many sections.
We are also seeing changes on things like Skype, Only Fans, Fet Life.. so these things are just continuing.
While the actual laws are not likely to be enforced until Jan 2019. I just want you to know that many including me are still here still providing the same great companionship that you need in your lives.
Please Read the following attachment guys and I hope it will help you find me and others as you need to.
ALSO SIGN THIS PETITION, our clients signing this petition helps us also.
How to find Escorts after Fosta /Sesta
FOR THE GUYS
Hey guys, as I am sure you know Fosta and Sesta have passed the Senate.
It is likely the laws will not go into effect until Jan 1 2019 but we want to
get you ready for new ways to find us.
Lots of the sites you are used to finding us on will go away…
That’s what this does,
So we will likely have to begin advertising on International Escort sites.
You will need to read our websites in those ads to find our actual state and city in the US.
It’s going to be complicated but it’s our way around it if that will work.
Second you will have to use GOOGLE but with these terms
Escorting is legal, YES it’s really is, selling time and companionship ARE LEGAL.
BUT Google to protect themselves legally may edit out our SEO appearance in google or take us out of
searches, so please instead of Prostitute or Hookers, or Escorts use the following terms in the search engines.
These will become the most popular SEO terms .. just be saving that in your data banks
you may even want to type in ladies in (city/state)
DIFFERENCES IN ADS AND WEBSITE TEXT
please BE PREPARED TO NOT HAVE A LIST OF SERVICES AND RATES OR AT LEAST NOT ON THE SAME PAGE.
YOU WILL HAVE TO TRUST WHAT WILL HAPPEN IN A SESSION WITHOUT DISCUSSING IT, DO NOT DISCUSS ACTS AND MONEY AT
ALL ANYMORE AND RESPECT THAT WE LADIES CANNOT WILL NOT TOLERATE THAT NOW.
If you do not know or understand already what the situation is, or what you’ll be getting then, don’t participate, its really
common sense, and it was tacky to be asking ever.
You will have to get used to getting passwords to see certain parts of ladies sites, IT IS A LEGAL PROTECTION TO US
DEAL WITH IT..COPE IF YOU WANT TO STILL SEE US.
***YOU WILL HAVE TO SCREEN, AND WITH REAL WORLD INFORMATION TO MAKE US FEEL SAFE AND TO KEEP YOU AND US SAFE IF THEY SHUT DOWN
THE REVIEW SITES AND ALL OUR SCREENING SITES…BE PREPARED, DON’T BITCH ABOUT IT, JUST COMPLY****
Save your favorite ladies info from Twitter and other social media, as is the trend of this message sex workers may soon
be removed from the ranks. SAVE OUR INFO.
save the profiles, the phone contact, the website links, the email addys.
PURCHASE AND DOWNLOAD A VPN, PURCHASE AND DOWNLOAD A VPN
SOME BROWSERS LIKE OPERA HAVE FREE ONES BUT THE ONES YOU BUY OFFER MORE LOCATIONS TO CHOOSE FROM
ONLY SEARCH FOR US BEHIND A VPN
ARE ALL GOOD ONES.
It’s going to get tougher to find us, but we’ll still be here. Following these steps will help.
KEEPING APPOINTMENTS, PRE BOOKING AND PAYING DEPOSITS AND CANCELLATION FEES ARE GOING TO MEAN SO
MUCH TO US LADIES NOW AS WE PREPARE FOR THE STORM.. SO MEN PLEASE BE GENTS AND SHOW YOUR SUPPORT.
praying for the best outcome….
CEO of www.takenbystorm.biz
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