What My Mentorship Services Involve

HEADLINE : IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR THE USUAL MENTOR WHO ONLY IS INTERESTED IN TEACHING HOW TO GET RICH, WHO’S TOTAL FOCUS IS ON COINS.. I AM NOT IT! HOWEVER IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A MENTOR WHO HAS SURVIVED IN SEX WORK FOR 18 YRS WITH ONLY 2 HARMFUL INCIDENTS AND MINIMAL LEGAL TROUBLES AND WHO CAN HELP YOU LEARN HOW TO BE PROFESSIONAL, CLASSY AND KEEP YOUR SANITY…

I AM IT!!!

Continue reading…..

 

The type of Mentorship I offer…

If you are seeking a mentor who claims to have the secret to getting rich…
I am not her…

What I am however is an escort of 18 yrs who knows the secret to longevity,
to remaining “relevant” , and staying mentally healthy in a business that destroys many who come into it not knowing how to adapt.

Being and escort or any type of sex worker for that matter takes some pretty thick skin. If you do not have it when you come in, I strongly suggest for your own mental health that you learn it.

I specialize in the following when I mentor:

Building your self confidence!

Sharing with your TRUTHFUL ins/outs of this business from the many levels and perspectives that I myself have
seen it from.

I teach you the correct components and items to put on your website or ads to engage customers and get them
to be interested enough to stay there and read it.

I teach those of you , who do not know how to use your social media how to use it.

MOST IMPORTANTLY I specialize in mentorship that involves teaching you how to STAY SAFE, HOW TO REALLY SCREEN AND TO NOT
JUST TRUST PROVIDER REFERENCES. AGAIN I SPECIALIZE IN SAFETY MENTORSHIP!!

I hope you get rich, or atleast can live comfortably but that’s not my main focus. My main focus is education and safety.

Now if you want to be able to do this for as many years as me with very few incidents of dangerous of unsafe predicaments..
and be able to also have a regular life that keeps you grounded and happy as a sex worker…
and able to withstand YEARS of bs and naysayers while still remaining sane and stable mentally…
HOLLA AT ME!

Mentorship $75
actual business consultant prices can be found on www.takenbystorm.co

LOTS OF KNOWLEDGE ON FOSTA/SESTA AS WELL.

 

 

Thanks from Taken By Storm INC

I wanted to drop by as we continue to work hard to make Web Design and SEO deadlines by the 29th of December just to say. THANK YOU SO MUCH , YALL ROCK!

My family had a good Christmas and it absolutely would not have been possible had it of not been for the support of my customers!

I am not a Taylor Swift fan but in the words of Taylor “Hater’s gonna hate hate hate hate, Shake it off!” That is what I do daily and I continue to be happy, full of love and so grateful to most and many of you!

Me and my kids cooked Asian Cuisine and we all exchanged gifts. One of my 2 grand kids even made it this year. Everyone said it was the best Christmas they had in a long time.  All of my kids except my oldest and her son were here. … BUT AFTER A LONG TIME OF NOT SPEAKING Christmas brought she and I to a healing in our relationship for which I am happy.

 

I hope all of you had a great Holiday also. I know it can be a hard time of the year and I and my kids have endured a few bad ones ourselves.

I just want you all to remember… when you are at the bottom, and shit is at is all time worst…

There is NO where to go but UP!! I know it seems cliche and crazy to say but that really is the truth. Once you hit bottom of anything in life, the only thing to do is get up!

 

Thanks again and I hope to continue to support and help sex workers everywhere for many years to come. Lets have a great 2020

 

 

Satan itself… The Erotic Review is Back

  • Before we even get into this: MEN those of you who read my blog.. I also encourage you to read this link so you have a real understanding about the reason for and importance of deposits. Click here

So many ladies, even ones I assist are going crazy due to this.
Ladies those of you who are celebrating.. WHY?
Most of you ( not survival workers) managed to survive a year without TER.
You stepped up your marketing, you got sites, you toured, you flourished without the threat of a bad or even
false review looming over your head.

Reviews need I remind you ( even my own old ones ) are proof of a crime. I need everyone to remember that before you
begin running back to TER. Grab a hold of yourselves and remember life went on without it.

For those who don’t remember my very public, very ugly parting of the ways with TER , some of which I cannot find all of in my old inbox. Here are some excerpts. It has never been a fair platform. It has never been a platform that sees providers as anything more than “meat” and a way to draw money into it’s owner’s pockets. And for those of you who do not know the horror story of its original , back when creator.. just go google David Elms Erotic Review.

Review culture forgets we are human, no two experiences can be exactly the same. Review culture creates anxiety, mistrust and a way for men who probably never even took the time to read your website to bully you and slander you if they don’t get every part of a checklist.

I am all for the lovely testimonials our clients can send and email to us privately. I am even all for men reporting women who actually harm them, steal from them, scam them. I am not for the brainwashing and manipulation though that is review culture.

Anyway here are the deets from back when!

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From: chanta fields <cfields1970@gmail.com>
Date: Tue, Aug 8, 2017 at 8:23 AM
Subject: on review boards
To: cfields1970 <cfields1970@gmail.com>

I composed a thread on Twitter this morning about review culture, however it ended up being a bit difficult to read so I decided I’d comment more here.

FIRST girls, review culture itself began solely from a man having a bad experience with a companion and wanting his “revenge”. Review culture even when it praises us
was never ever set up to be our friend or on our side. It is set up to exploit us like cattle, give men some control in our industry and our bodies. A review system where Its only would recommend would not recommend would be doable and ok, BUT that is not how they are. Its all about insane ratings and contradictions.

But the real point of this post is to empower and to let you know why you DO NOT really need review culture.

So many of you have allowed review culture to make you its slave. To be concerned with what is said to a point of stress, fear and worry that you should not be forced to operate under. I remember my days of review culture, having to worry throughout a whole session about what some jerk was going to go home and write even if you had done everything but donate your blood to make him happy. So many of these guys get a kick out of “dragging” ladies reputations or throwing “side jab” comments. Its sickening to me that so many of you are perfectly ok with being treated like cattle or museum pieces. Ladies even as a sexworker you are human. It simply is insane to try to rate all sexworker’s on some insane rating scale, that has turned into more of a porn show than useful info.

In the early 2000’s when I began escorting. Men had to join sites to read complete reviews and to submit them BUT our rating numbers and non explicit details were publicly visible without a membership, so YES during that time period REVIEWS mattered more because people , anyone could atleast see those comments and numbers. However in the last 5-6 yrs the review sites turned into a porn show and they then also out of greed, locked all the info that was once available to the masses. Now men have to pay for VIP memberships on most of the TOP review sites to be able to see your “numbers” so now most of them who weren’t already hobbyist no longer even go to the review boards.

They may check the seedy , god forsaken back channel boards and crap like USASEXGUIDE( please dont even bother its the worst of the worst) but most men that I deal with atleast 70 percent are not willing to give their cc etc to join and get VIP membership to the bigger boards for info they used to be able to see for free. I’d like to add that when I did belong to TER I got Id say about 3-5 clients from there or at least only that many that told be prior to booking they were members there. I saw several from over the years from Bigdoggie.Net I found them to be a little more to my liking. However, on a whole again we are human, we are sexworker’s but we are human. A simple would recommend, would not recommend is all that should be needed.

How do so many women continue to be ok with and contribute to , these review boards, the meet and greets the escort memberships to them, the weekly advertising on these sites that clearly have not one and I mean NOT one once of respect for any provider there, I just don’t understand it.

The internet is a great place, a wide open place, with all the social media and other forms of marketing available to us now , WHY are we still stuck in the review board system?
You want to be seen, get up in SEO rankings, be more findable to clients then Blog, be active on Twitter, Be active on Instagram, advertise on Escort ad sites, network, make sure you have a professional on point website , and give clients the ability to send testimonials to you that you can then add to your own website for clients to see. A testimonial page on your site where men can send in comments on their time with you is a great idea.

The point is, you can take back control of your business. You can still be found, you can still get customers, It just will take more work.
But wow it will be worth it you can let go of the stress of conforming to a bunch of men when its your body, your business, your worth on the line.
Its a lot more fun, and less stressful when you no longer have to worry about your “rating numbers” and you get to just connect as a human being with a man and you both get to relax , get to know each other and enjoy it.

Have a good day!

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———- Forwarded message ———
From: chanta fields <cfields1970@gmail.com>
Date: Wed, Nov 25, 2015 at 9:02 AM
Subject: TER BS
To: chanta fields <cfields1970@gmail.com>

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By STORMDIAMOND – 11/25/2015 8:27:53 AM
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should still be allowed on this site. I should no longer have a review ID here. My understanding of delisting is that once delisted you may not be mentioned or reviewed on this site again. Removing my reviews but then still leaving my info here is not following the rules. NONE of my info should have remained. It used to say this provider is no longer listed or some message similar to that. Now my info has reappeared. Please fix that. I do not want to be on this site at all. Thank you.

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By TER Customer Support [1515924] – 11/25/2015 8:41:41 AM
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Hello,

It’s very simple rules. As long as you advertising, members have full right to submit reviews about sessions with you. theeroticreview.com is for hobbyists to shear their experience.

Please note that non of the members can see your old reviews, we just have your Stage name listed and web ads with contact information. And it will remain as long as you working in this business.

This is not for discussion.

Have a nice week, and Happy Thanksgiving!

Thank you for the support,
–TER Support Staff

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By STORMDIAMOND – 11/25/2015 1:33:23 PM
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All my info was removed before. So pls re remove it or I am going to do as i did before and re publicize to the public on my blog of 105,000 readers how Im being violated by being forced to be part of a site I have stated I dont want to be part of. I DID that quite well two years ago and was delisted. And I am going to do it again if not taken down you all have no right to force us to be part of your site. Look at the site I made just because of the horrible treatment i recieved from Usa sex guide http://antiusasexguide.blogspot.com Unlike other girls Im going to stand up for my rights. And its my right to not be part of your site. Pls remove it.
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By TER Customer Support [1515924] – 11/25/2015 6:41:49 AM
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If you delist due to retirement and all your web presence is removed, then, all of your information is unavailable.

Thank you for the support,
–TER Support Staff

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By STORMDIAMOND – 11/25/2015 8:27:53 AM
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should still be allowed on this site. I should no longer have a review ID here. My understanding of delisting is that once delisted you may not be mentioned or reviewed on this site again. Removing my reviews but then still leaving my info here is not following the rules. NONE of my info should have remained. It used to say this provider is no longer listed or some message similar to that. Now my info has reappeared. Please fix that. I do not want to be on this site at all. Thank you.
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Forwarded message ———
From: chanta fields <cfields1970@gmail.com>
Date: Thu, Jul 10, 2014 at 1:04 PM
Subject: convo with TER
To: chanta fields <cfields1970@gmail.com>

My Feedback
WHY HAVE SOME OF MY REVIEWS BEEN REMOVED
reported on
7/10/2014 8:25:04 AM
updated on
7/10/2014 8:52:57 AM
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Contact Us
status
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By STORMDIAMOND – 7/10/2014 4:25:03 PM
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Im sensing some unfairness here at TER. Why have my positive reviews been removed. when all the BOGUS LYING slamming ones have been left up. Please if you cant be fair and show how all my clients feel about me DELIST ME. and thats the honest facts.. I dont want to be part of a SITE where BIAS runs wild.

If my clients WHO GENUINELY appreciate and love me cannot post about their REAL time with me BUT THE HATING ones who make up shit can. THEN FUCKING TAKE ME DOWN.. you have no issue allowing people to slander me.. BUT wont allow my regs who enjoy me to review me.. FUCK THIS SITE AND EVERYTHING IT ABOUT delist me now !! and thats real!
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By TER Customer Support [1499232] – 7/10/2014 5:52:57 PM
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Hi,

If the reviews are genuine we believe the reviewers will contact us in due time, and we will post the reviews back if they are able to proof that the reviews are genuine as we have reasons to believe they are not.

Thank you for the support,
–TER Support Staff

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By STORMDIAMOND – 7/10/2014 5:02:29 PM
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I personally don’t care if they do or don’t BECAUSE I don’t want to be on your site.. BUT I TELL YOU WHAT SINCE I KNOW THE RULES OF TER PAGE BY PAGE AND SINCE YOU THINK I WROTE THE DAMN REVIEWS THEN DO LIKE THE REVIEW LAWS SAY AND DELIST ME..

BECAUSE THOSE GUYS ARE CLIENTS OF MINE THAT COME FROM CASUAL ENCOUNTERS ON CRAIGSLIST.. NOT BACKPAGE THEY ARE NOT TRUE HOBBYISTS… so for all I know those emails and whatever else that applies to them are not even their real emails… NOT EVERY GUY WHO PAYS FOR SEX is used to using escorts..SO I DON’T KNOW but if for any reason you think the reviews weren’t real then why didn’t you delist me.

IF THEY CONTACT YOU THEY DO IF THEY DON’T THEY DON’T.. I DON’T CARE.. but i have publicly stated on my blog that gets about 4,000 reads a month in regard to THE BIAS AND FAVORITISM allowed on your site.. DID YOU TAKE THE TIME TO CHECK AND SEE IF THE BS NEGATIVE REVIEWS YOU ALLOWED ABOUT ME WERE REAL.. DID YOU DO THAT??

IF YOU DIDNT DO THAT.. THEN I SUGGEST YOU GO BACK TO THEM AND DO THE SAME

AND AGAIN THE TER REVIEW RULES STATE THAT IF YOU THINK A PROVIDER, HER FRIEND , BOYFRIEND WHATEVER wrote her reviews shes DELISTED.. SO IF THATS REALLY TRULY WHAT YOU BELIEVE THEN why am i still listed.

dont play with my livelihood like that! either you think I’m guilty of something or you don’t!

plain and simple so which one is it!

IF YOU THINK THEY ARE FAKE TAKE MY SHIT AND SCREEN NAME DOWN NOW.. go ahead!

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BELOW ARE ALL THE SCREENSHOTS OF MORE FROM BACK THEN..
LADIES YOU CAN STAND UP TO TER, ( THE EROTIC REVIEW)
IT IS OK TO DO SO!!

Watch your Twitter Fingers….


Update as of 12/22/2019 Twitter user @lilacsinS is still at it! lol

You know they just changed their profile pic to an umbrella but prior to that it was a set of feet that’s extremely familiar as they never have had any images of themselves on their site or anywhere else.. NOW if it’s not this person ( who by the way I have never met or had any dealings with) great ( and I apologize )but I’m pretty sure it is, as the way they type, speak all matches their regular profile timeline and their website. I screen professionally for others, SO I am very attentive and no dummy.

Sidenote: if it’s not the above mentioned person hiding behind that lilacsins persona then the timeline makes it Very easy to figure  out who it is.

I get money and make great websites and form good relationships with other sex workers without having to tear down any other mentors or web designers ……

I would encourage you all to report the account and have it blocked but I don’t care.

They have literally 107 followers so all this speaking badly of the rest of us and mentioning us in tweets is “clout chasing” to get a following.  So I guess I am honored, and unbothered.  I know I am beautiful, smart and I know I have been in this business a LONG time and I may not be rich but I am relevant, respected and STILL HERE.

I was amazed to find out this morning that someone on Twitter had decided to attack me on not one of my accounts but two of them…

I suppose because I try to keep things professional and drama free as of late ( you know because I am actually busy adulting)
some of you have forgotten that when I do bite back.. I bite back hard.

I am not some ignorant, scared person who you can intimidate into submission online. Hell I don’t submit to anyone..
you see the tag line “your dominant girlfriend”.

So let me enlighten some of you.
I have 5 children, and 2 grandchildren.
1 graduated college last year, one in her 3rd year of Medical studies and then of course she’ll go on to even more education.
I also have 3 more kids 2 of whom are minors and on their way to bright futures as well. None of my adult kids have ever been
drug abusers, or incarcerated. I have taken care of my children and help financially with some of their needs even as adults when they need it because I am mom. Especially the younger three …

I never got online recently and said “HEY hand me free money” That didn’t happen! So for anyone to say I am begging they better go back and read my shit correctly. I am looking for work, not handouts. Now to you who has so much to say..
Have you raised 5 kids , FIVE with little to no help from anyone. ( BTW I was a wife at one point and it ended before you go there) I am a STRONG ASS WOMAN, You know nothing about me or why there are no savings. Many people who talk about things like this have never had to provide for nearly as many people as I have.

OH and by the way even though I knew I was taking away from my own family , I helped 2 other families just 2 weeks ago when I was relatively sure Id have some money coming in from a deal I thought was solid that then fell through. One person , I bought their child a coat and thermals and another family friend of mine in Maryland I provided grocery money for and an XMAS tree and ornaments for her kids.

Not to mention all the SOLID, advice giving and mentor-ship and HONEST , GENUINE pep talks and talks of courage I give to people when I don’t have to and sometimes don’t even have the time to, but I do it.

I have taken in sex workers in my home before and tried to help them , until some of them got out of hand and it was a risk to my families home.

WHAT HAVE YOU DONE BESIDES TALK SHIT AND TRY, NOTICE I SAID THE WORD TRY TO MAKE ME FEEL SOME TIME OF WAY?

What you actually did today was make me really look at myself and all the GOOD and GREAT things I do for other sex workers
and instead of feeling the shame I think you hoped to inspire.. I FEEL PROUDER THAN EVER.

I guess someone is upset because they see others loving me, caring about me and praising me and my CHARACTER, online which is something some of you know nothing about.

So again as I said before I am solid, my reputation as a “mom” figure and mentor to other sex workers is solid.
I am a person anyone can come to when they need to vent or need to figure out a problem.

I am beyond rich in CHARACTER, and in life experience. So I may not have the savings you speak of but what I have
and the spirit I have is much more important and valuable at the end of the day. Those are things money doesn’t buy.

I will never back down, I will never be ashamed and I will NEVER EVER TAKE SHIT FROM SOMEONE who is hiding behind
anonymity on a keyboard. Hell I won’t hide or back down in person either.

I strongly advise you to keep your immature antics and commentary to yourself when it comes to me.

My age and maturity , brings me knowledge which makes me one hell of an adversary to have.

Stop it.

Its the Holidays and no matter what you do, what you say, what you think…

ME AND MY FAMILY ARE GOING TO BE BLESSED AND HAPPY , WE ALWAYS POWER THROUGH.

Happy Holidays!

Seductive Storm

Reaching out and hoping someone needs this…

Look maybe you aren’t sure of the direction you need right now as far as your site…
But you know you need one…
I have 2 grand-kids and my college daughter I am desperately trying to get home for the
Holidays.

You paying for the $600 or $900 package helps with transportation and gifts for them and I’d be eternally
grateful and at your disposal on retainer so to speak, for any services you need in the future.

A big gig I was locked into DID NOT pan out. Please help me make up the difference.

MEN , who are interested in future appointments or who just always read my blogs or social media…
help from you is appreciated also!!!! Feel free to contribute. And If I am ever in your area or you in mine,
it will be subtracted from the fee for meeting me.

email takenbystormdesigns@gmail.com to help!

Atlanta and Alpharetta men….

FIRST, I do not believe in shaming sex workers, I mean DUH I am one. I also hate that the news channels love throwing around the word Prostitute. Its just such a derogatory term. I and everyone else are SEX WORKERS. I know some folks don’t mind the term, but I do. But anyway on to a much more important topic!

I hope this wakes some of you men up. Imagine how some of you probably felt today after seeing the news. Or how you felt if you were involved in the sting that caught her. The issue here is that she knew and didn’t seek treatment. In today’s world you can get meds that make you undetectable and there for unable to transmit and cause others harm. She however didn’t do that. I hope that she was atleast practicing safe services, but who knows?

So many men in Georgia and all over are so reckless. Its like PREP became a thing and everyone said let’s just throw caution to the wind.

My thing is why have to ingest man made poison if you don’t have to. Why put your real world partners and wives at risk?

Anyway I know there are some very difficult conversations being had in Alpharetta Ga and surrounding areas tonight.

Be safe everyone!

https://www.cbs46.com/news/woman-accused-of-being-a-prostitute-and-exposing-others-to/article_ce0985aa-16dc-11ea-8536-5f944c760c51.html

Holiday Season Frustrations

Well first Happy Holidays! I hope everyone enjoyed Thanksgiving. As we move onto the big one
Christmas, I need to vent and who better to share my vents with than my sex work community.

First make no mistake I am grateful for the things my family and I do have. There are plenty less fortunate I am
certain. I personally know a few and I so hope with all my heart that things improve for them. However I am human
and I am also a mother so my concern is always going to be my children, their happiness etc. I had really big
and wonderful plans for Christmas this year. A lot has happened in the past and we’ve had some not so great times as a family in the past. So with all the hard work I do with web design and assistant work etc .. I expected this year
to be great. We made plans as a family for such.

I haven’t even begun Christmas shopping yet, because I cannot, not yet. I need more income.
Our water heater went up and so I’ve had to save towards fixing that. I do realize that it has been eerily
slow for many the last couple of months. I wish I had a crystal ball and an explanation but I do not.
I sincerely hope for us all that it picks up super soon!

I come to you tonight to vent and to really lay it out there. I could SERIOUSLY use more assistant customers, and more web designs customers like ASAP. I do ask that you only contact me and reach out to hire me if you are serious, and focused and ready to pay and get started.

Again I realize things happen but this is not the time of year that I can waste time or energy or take losses. It just isn’t.

The current offerings are on the table and only until the 15th of December.
I encourage you to go to BUSINESS SITE
and see my portfolio as well as read the testimonials.

I can also point you to the direction of ladies who can provide references of my services.

Current specials!
SEO 150 one time set up only and only for ONE TIME SET UP , not for maintenance.
SEO monthly maintenance for Indy ladies is 200 monthly and for agencies 500 monthly

SOCIAL MEDIA MANAGEMENT ( daily tweets up to 3 per day. 300 weekly)
SOCIAL MEDIA MANAGEMENT ( only 2 tweets per week 450.00 month)

Assistant fees ( SIGN UP THIS WEEK and get December ( ONLY DECEMBER ) for 600.00 monthly!
normal assistant fees 200 for lite work and 350 weekly for heavier load.

WEB DESIGN SPECIALS TILL DECEMBER 15 TH!

150-200 FOR 1 PAGE SIMPLE BEGINNER SITE.
$400 FOR $600 LEVEL PACKAGE
$600 FOR $900 LEVEL PACKAGE
$300 FOR 4 PAGE SITE

EMAIL ME AT TAKENBYSTORMDESIGNS@GMAIL.COM
OR TEXT ME AT 6783165791

Preparation for listening to my Tank Smith Full Service Interview (Pls read)

So with my upcoming podcast with Tank Smith, and with how I speak with some ladies I assist about strength and what it is and how to have it, and how to take your power back. I know you will hear some things I say in my podcast interview ( even though I apologize for how they may sound as soon as I say them,) that some of you that are more sensitive may be taken aback by.

So I wanted to just give this short epilogue here …so should I need to guide any sensitive folks to it…
after they hear my interview.. It’ll already be here for you to find.

Things about me before and during sex work that you may be shocked to know..
( so that when you hear the interview , you wont be able to say that I am entitled or that I haven’t been through the things I am talking about.. I ASSURE YOU I HAVE!)

When I was 19-21 yrs of age for instance before sex work..
I had not one but by that 3 abusive relationships.
One boyfriend who beat me up when he found out that when he cheated on me, I cheated w his friend.
One boyfriend who put a gun to my head on an abandoned street and said hed kill me also a cheating asshole who had been cheating on me , who couldn’t handle when I cheated back..
and lastly one that I actually allowed to live with me in my first place on my own who beat me on more than one occasion because he was trying to hide he was into men ( BTW I have no issues with it, I just didn’t want to date a man playing both sides of the fence, and yeah that sounds crazy since I am BI, but its true)

Not to mention the times between 18-32 yrs when men in the middle of sex both in and out of sex work didn’t listen when I said no to them removing condoms and continued anyway. ( BTW men that too is sexual assault. I can remember 3 times that happened to me, thank God .. God was with me and my health wasn’t affected) I know one time I came home from a date when I was 32 and my now 17 yr old sons dAD had been at my home spending time with my son. I told him what the guy had done to me and he wanted to go kill him. Again I held myself together, went to the doctor and continued. I don’t think I even cried that time. I just was angry as hell.

I also at 20 had an uncle in law , ( Ive still never told my auntie) who I told I needed money and he picked me up and took me to his house under the guise that he was going to pay me for cleaning their pool. I didn’t know wed be there alone. While cleaning the pool he decided to tell me that he’d help me learn to swim. Evidently part of being taught how to swim was being fingered several times while he helped me try to float… so I been sexually assaulted, even if I wasn’t left w bruises.

And my one and only bad experience as a sex worker. I lived in Raliegh in 2007 and had a date with a man who I didn’t realize was a monster. He picked me up because I couldn’t host at my home . We drove to his home where we had dinner and drinks ( I still drink on dates but I never ever get tipsy anymore on dates) And here’s why…
During sex with this seemingly nice man I turned around into doggy style . He then decided to force anal on me against my will. I said no, he continued told me to stop crying that It wasn’t his fault I had chosen my job. My crying seemed to ruin the “mood” so he stopped and decided to drive me home. On that way home all I could think was I wanted to kill him, even in the car, I was thinking I could murder him , take his car and no one would know.. BUT then I remembered I have to get home to my kids, I have to be strong and walk back in this house w no tears. My now 26 yr old son asked me when I walked in what was wrong because even though I wasn’t crying , he could tell I wasn’t myself. I said nothing I went upstairs and got ready for my next appointment to pick me up .. I had rent to pay , kids to feed…so I continued my day.

It took me till 2017 to mentally admit Id be raped, or atleast sexually assaulted now 2 times in my life.

I never let those experiences of abuse or assault break me or change me from who I am. And that’s where I am coming from when I say things in my interview. So I want you all to not listen and think I am making light or fun of anything.
I know the hurt, the rage and the “secret” keeping of abuse. I have been at the front line of it.

Just know. I am pro woman, pro sex worker and I want to see you all stand up and take your power back!!

BTW IF I HAD IT ALL TO DO OVER AGAIN, ID TAKE THE RISK AND REPORT ALL THEIR ASSES TO THE POLICE….
I WILL EAT A MISDEMEANOR TO GIVE ANY MAN WHO HARMS ME A FELONY … PLEASE BELIEVE THAT. AND IF I FEEL AT RISK ENOUGH IN CIVVIE OR WORK EVER AGAIN, I WILL ROCK AN ORANGE JUMPSUIT. NOT GOING TO ALLOW ANY MAN TO HARM ME AND GET AWAY WITH IT EVER AGAIN. I DON’T THINK ANY OF YOU SHOULD EITHER.

Podcast Full Service will go live this Tuesday night
its Full Service Podcast by Tank Smith

Thank you
11/9/2019
Seductive Storm

Yes, Im a Sex Worker and a Mother

So…

( If you are looking for a read that is sexy, feeds fantasy etc…. This blog entry here, isn’t the one to read)

As some of you know, I have mentioned my 31 yr old daughter having bi polar.

I have empathy but I know other bi polar people who are not “monsters” for lack of a better term. My daughter and her toxicity are things that at least for now I have decided to keep out of my life as I need peace and growth of my own.

I only mention her because some of her comments make me think of things that civvie women and men often say about people who are escorts.

My daughter would love for the world to believe that me being an escort made her life hard.. ( BTW IT IMPORTANT TO NOTE THAT, MY DAUGHTER WAS ALREADY 14 OR ENDING OF 13 WHEN I BEGAN, SHE NEVER WAS AS YOUNG AS HER YOUNGER SIBLINGS WHEN I BEGAN. IF ANYTHING ID EXPECT HER TO BE MORE UPSET ABOUT HER DAD AND HER STEPDAD’S INFLUENCE ON OUR HOME LIVES AND HER LIFE THAN MY OCCUPATION. BUT THAT’S ANOTHER STORY. SHE WAS NEVER EVER ABUSED, I’D BE IN JAIL IF ANY OF MY KIDS WERE ABUSED BECAUSE SOMEONE WOULD HAVE TO DIE.) So trust me her formative years were not marked at all by me becoming a sex worker.

Its bullshit!
In fact other than having to babysit when I worked, having gone through rough times financially on more than one occasion ( BOTH THINGS THAT HAPPEN OFTEN NO MATTER WHAT YOUR PARENTS OCCUPATION IS BTW) overall things got better.

Let’s see ..
Instead of being gone everyday 16 hours a day working in the medical field…I was home for the most part.

I knew where my kids were, they knew where I was. I could go to parties and events w them and make my own hours to be home.

We could afford to go to concerts,events to have the best Halloweens Every year.

She could come in at any time except for when we were struggling and get money for prom dresses or just a trip to the mall.

Now had I have been a mom struggling after a divorce like most single moms in the civvie world do…she wouldn’t have had those things.

Yes till she was 18 she also had a trust fund. So once a yr well say she was able to buy her own things.   BUT make no mistake she was loved and cared for.

If were going to be very honest..my escorting affected my 26 yr old son way more than her because when she left home..he had to really go thru the struggling with me..when we moved to Ga knowing no one and he really had to become the man of the house at 14. So for him I could understand any complaints. She however was really truly in the house having to watch her younger siblings because she was on punishment already 90 percent of the time for her mouth and for not doing her schoolwork. Funny how kids only remember the parts of their childhoods that suit them when they want to play victim

The point is SEXWORK made me a better mom actually and also led me to seeing my greatness and to now running 2 companies of my own.

When I was young I was one of those girls similar to my daughter who due to loneliness slept w more men honestly then than I probably did my first few years of escorting. I’m one of those ladies who’s clients really only 15 percent of them over the years have gone full service w me. They truly connect w me, respect me and it creates a different dynamic for most of my dates. I happen to be proud of that. Although I do not mind my gfe gents long as they also treat me with respect.

I have more respect for how I used my body once I could pay my Bill’s and provide for my children than I will ever ever have for when I was just being stupid and desperate for male attention and sleeping with anyone who found me sexy. Meanwhile I was a food stamp and welfare mom w an education who should have been doing better.

To anyone reading this in the civvie world. The woman sleeping w everyone for free is no better in anyway than the one getting paid. The one getting paid is simply taking some power and control of her situation.

I would NEVER want any of my daughters to need to be sex workers not because its shameful but purely because its dangerous.  However I also wouldn’t want my daughters sleeping w everyone or any man for that matter and unable to keep a home or pay their Bill’s or provide for their kids.

All I did was simply stop sleeping around for free and began to profit from something I’d already been doing. It was no secret I was a wild one when I was younger.

So to any family members or friends who may by chance stumble across my blog….

YOU WILL NEVER SHAME ME..THERE IS NO SHAME IN ME.
PERIODT.

Thanks for allowing me to clear my head…

Storm aka Char